Monday, February 22, 2010

Chapter 78

Sex b4 Marriage..

First of all.. virginity is for both gender not only for girls...

Love may seem very convincing till one day he comes and say.. " i wanna have sex wit u.." she says no!! he then plays his normal game.. "u don trust me rite.. u dont love me rite.." then she cries n says.. "no dear i love u the most in this world.. i'll do anything 4 u just dont say like this anymore please.." she agrees to it just 4 him.. after everyting is over.. she sees a lot of changes in him.. not the way he used to love her.. she gets very hurt but couldnt do much.. she offered herself to him so she's afraid to loose him...sometimes he treats her very well but its only for 1 reason.. "can we do it again?" she have no choice.. it goes on 4 a few months and he finally says.. " i dont think its going on well.. i'm interested in someone else.. im sorry " n he walks off.. she cries alot for a few months then the lonely soul becomes weak.. her life is ruined.. she starts not to believe any guy.. she changes a lot.. she sleeps with every guy she get into a relationship with.. and the same things happen.. no good guys willing to accept her because she's not virgin anymore.. and finally she starts to become someone very cheap... From a survey.. 89 .72% of our today's teens are destroyed because of sex.. both are to be blamed.. they failed to understand wat is love.. They confuse themself between.. affection.. lust and love.. For those who r in a relationship out there.. ask these questions to urself...

1. have your partner ever asked u to have sex?

2. Is there any changes in him after sex?

Ur the most luckiest person if your answer is NO and if its yes.. ask urself y? n you gotta do something about it.. to all girls n boys.. love is not about sex.. I know some of u think that its just making love with the person u love.. but trust me u r wrong.. If u really love a guy.. see if he can ignore sex until the day of marriage.. If he cant wait and keep on bugging u for sex.. it means.. he just wants sex.. If he waits until marriage.. thats 1 thing only the good guys can do.. Then u can know that u have a really good guy in ur life.. NEVER FALL 4 ANY SWEET WORDS !! u wont wanna know how ur life will be if u make a mistake.. Loose your virginity only to your husband.. only he deserves your love.. not a bf who promises to marry u.. not a bf.. that u think who loves u so much and u love him so much.. but actually everything in the relationship is uncertain.. Hope you girls and boys learn something from this.. Coz right now.. even there are some gals who does the same thing to guys.. Life is a journey.. not a destination.. so its time to look back and think which is the right thing to do.